At the dawning of a new calendar year, we tend to think about how we would like to be in the coming months; the things we would maybe like to change about ourselves, lifestyle adjustments we'd like to make, and new pursuits we would like to engage in. All in all, it isn't a bad thing to reflect on and recalibrate the way we are living our life. However when it involves the idea that something isn't good enough or we haven't enough of something, then distant alarm bells may r